WHAT STYLEZ THINKS ABOUT => The Status of Marriage!

Adam and Eve were never ordained married. That came about from the tradition of man. Just love who you are with and thank GOD for them...be faithful - what do you think?
via Facebook.com

So What Does Stylez Think?

So I was bouncing around the "INTERNETS" making people GO NUTS! And of course, I came across a quote that got me thinking. As you can see above, someone decided to stir the pot on the Status of Marriage! I am married, legally not just on FB! LOL!, so I recognize the importance and the benefits of marriage. But this little tidbit was interesting and I just had to answer:

That is VERY INTERESTING... it depends on which definition you use to describe marriage! Merriam-Webster has 3 definitions, and the first two describe a lawful act and a traditional ceremony (which, like your friend said, is a tradition of man). When Jehovah created Eve, that UNION was so strong, so eternal, that you have to look to the third definition: " an intimate or close union" ... or Princeton's inverted definition: "a close or intimate union". There could be no argument that if you were MADE from me, our UNION could be no closer or intimate than that! So, TECHNICALLY Adam & Eve were joined in marriage under GOD's LAW of Marriage as it was recognized by HIM! In modern times, a priest/minister/rabbi/judge is required to oversee you're union and confirm it in order for it to be lawfully recognized... unless you live in a Common Law state/country where just the act of being in union for a long period of time is sufficient! So be it religious, lawful or social, marriage is a SERIOUS and complicated status, so you definitely want to enter into it prepared and ready for the long haul!

That Is What Stylez Thinks! What do you think? Please comment!

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WILLIE STYLEZ HOT MUSIC (VIDEO) REVIEW => "When a Woman Loves" - R. KELLY #HOTTRACK

"When a Woman Loves" - The Official Music Video

The official video just came in for "When a Woman Loves". Check it out right here.

SO WHAT DOES STYLEZ THINK?

YA BOY KELLZ IS BACK!!!

Take THAT Trey Songz.... OK, maybe I just went TO FAR! BUT, I must say, THIS SONG, THIS SONG RIGHT HERE! THIS SONG RIGHT HERE Nnnn! Its THAT DEAL! I heard it a few days ago and was THOROUGHLY and UTTERLY impressed and felt like R. Kelly was doing his thing like he ALWAYS DOES... but its like he just stepped the R&B game BACK UP again! Its a classic love ballad, by only which R. Kelly can put it down these days! His voice is amazing and soulful! It tunnels its way into your heart, then JUMPS right back out! No doubt, one of his most beautiful in the past 2 or 3 years! ...

Review Break ... Sorry for all the CAPS folks, but DAMN, my big homie Kellz always brings the excitement back to R&B! Ok, back to your regularly scheduled music review!

Anyway, the video feels like a classic mix of vocal exhibitionism with a little old school class thrown in to make it top notch! I can't say it's better than Kanye's Power video, or groundbreaking by any stretch, but I must say, R. Kelly doesn't usually let us down when it comes to the videos! He usually comes with something innovative, or classy, or different ... or whatever! It always makes you want more!

Anyway, I can't wait to see what else Kelly has in store for us! I am sure it will be EPIC!

That Is What Stylez Thinks! What Do You Think!?!? Please comment and let me know!

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WILLIE STYLEZ HOT MUSIC REVIEW => Drake - The Search (ft Saukrates) #HOTTRACK

SO WHAT DOES STYLEZ THINK?

I have always been a Drake fan and this is why! He has A LOT of good music and is very versatile! I hate when people hate on him because they ONLY here the 2 or 3 commercial songs! It's like, HOW THE HELL you think he get a Grammy BEFORE he dropped those commercial hits? It (OBVIOUSLY) wasn't Auto-Tune, affiliation w/ Young Money, his "good" looks (no homo, note the quotes) or acting skills! SMDH! The kid has TONS of potential and lots of talent! I can't wait till EVERYBODY else notices! LOL!

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WHAT STYLEZ THINKS ABOUT => Same Sex Marriage!

I was going through some posts and news stories on the internet and of course, with the news about Same Sex Marriage laws possibly being overturned, the Topic Of The Day was ... Same Sex Marriage! And of course, everybody had an opinion! Well, of course, I had to chime in!

I don't believe its right for me and it goes against my beliefs! BUT I am not about to bring judgement upon those who do it! It trips me out to hear people throwing out the "I go by GOD", "I do what GOD says", "GOD is not going to like it", blah, blah, blah. But those are the SAME people SINNING too! Eating in excess; Gambling (lottery too); getting drunk; smoking; pre-marital sex & adultery; dating multiple people; doing drugs (and yes, weed IS a drug); not going to regular religious services; participating in, practicing and/or willingly watching unrighteous activities (like those rap videos, most movies, violent sports and entertainment, etc)! Those are ALL unacceptable and most are SINS against GOD! None of us are perfect! Jesus said that "he WITHOUT sin cast the first stone"!!! Well all you stone throwers need to check yourselves again before you get "high & mighty" against homosexuals. EVERYONE will have to answer for their sins, heterosexuals TOO!

That is what Stylez thinks! What do you think? Please comment!

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Willie Stylez - VLog #5

An old Vlog, but relevant... I guess! LOL! Check it out! Lots of blog recommendations. Shout out to Clementine @ Reflections of Me and Telisha @ Goddess Intellect!

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Willie Stylez VLog #11 (yea yea, I know... Where's 5 - 10)!

Latest VLog Posting! Just a quick vlog to update everyone. Vlog's 5 - 10 will be posted shortly... this time!

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WHAT STYLEZ THINKS ABOUT => YouTube, Ridley Scott & Kevin MacDonald's (human experiment) => Life In A Day - July 24 2010

What Does STYLEZ Think?

So I'm on YouTube today, and notice a different logo, and a "02 days" indicator! So of course, that peeks my interest and I click it. Soon, I discover, what I think is, the GREATEST human experiment to ever be conceived! An experiment such as this has been conjured up and even done in the past... but at a MUCH SMALLER scale! I am not sure of the current membership numbers, however I am sure that there are MILLIONS upon millions of YouTube members! Thus you have millions of potential "co-directors" for this joint, film venture from YouTube, LG, producer Ridley Scott and director Kevin MacDonald!

As the video above shows, the Life In A Day team are looking for YOU, everyday people to film their lives on July 24th 2010! It can be a clip, several moments or a mini-documentary! Do whatever's clever! Then between now and in January, the LIAD team will pick videos and clips to include in the movie they will show at Sundance in January 2011! This huge, not just because we will see some new reality stars emerge from this... but because this "Time Capsule" as it were, will be an AMAZING glimpse, into the day in the life, of ... well, everyone! It is commendable that they will include clips from ALL OVER THE WORLD, thus accommodating MANY different languages, social, religious and cultural views from anyone willing to participate!

So, go over to YouTube's Life In A Day channel (http://youtube.com/lifeinaday) and check out the details and rules! I can't wait to see a day in YOUR life!

That Is What Stylez Thinks! What Do You Think? Please comment!

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WHAT STYLEZ THINKS ABOUT => Rev. Jesse Jackson Responds to Shooting Death of DeCarlos Moore (& Oscar Grant)

News

July 10, 2010

Rev. Jesse Jackson Reponds to Shooting Death of DeCarlos Moore

“This pattern is becoming all too common,” said Rev. Jesse L. Jackson Sr., founder and president of the Rainbow PUSH Coalition following the shooting death of a South Florida man, DeCarlos Moore. Moore was shot by a Miami Police officer during a traffic stop. “The Department of Justice must intervene. This was an unarmed man shot in public. The recent shooting of Moore magnifies symptoms of a deeper problem of insensitivity and detachment.”

Riots broke out in Oakland, CA this past Thursday in protest over the verdict in the Oscar Grant shooting. Grant was the unarmed 22-year-old African-American man who was shot dead by Johannes Mehserle, a white transit officer, on an Oakland train platform on New Year's Day in 2009. A jury in Los Angeles convicted Mehserle of involuntary manslaughter but he was acquitted on the more serious charges of second-degree murder and voluntary manslaughter.

Rev. Jackson went on to say, “Diversity is an important asset to police. Police bureaus should be more diversified with women and whites and people of color. It should look like the community so you have more sensitivity. If you have a diverse community, you should have a diverse police department.

Blacks have the highest infant mortality rates, and the shortest life expectancy. Unemployment rates for blacks are nearly twice that of whites. From jobs, to access to capital and lending, racially driven structural inequalities dominate the social and economic landscape of America.

Today it is clearer than ever that we need vigorous action by local and state authorities and the U.S. Department of Justice to enforce civil rights laws, EEOC, contract compliance and affirmative action. I hope the President and his administration will address these issues head-on to deal with issues surrounding equal protection under the law for all Americans.”

SO WHAT DOES STYLEZ THINK?

A friend of mine (shoutout to Je'Tara of http://www.jetaraspeaks.com) just commented today about the fact that the Lebron James DECISION totally overshadowed the trial of Officer Johannes Mehserle, who was facing 2nd-degree murder, voluntary manslaughter and involuntary manslaughter charges on the same day! As many of you know, Mehserle was found not guilty of the more serious charges, but was only found guilty of involuntary manslaughter! So, for KILLING another human being (and as some believe, in cold blood), this officer will only have to serve 2-4 years in prison!

In her comment she did not realize that Rev. Jackson had already days earlier responded to this (I believe) injustice that was served to Grant and his family. But I did want to post his response to this tragedy and ANOTHER recent incident involving the Miami Police and black man shot during a traffic stop.

Rev. Jackson also commented on the need for vigorous action by the U.S. Dept of Justice and state authorities to enforce civil rights laws, etc. I think at this point, it is clear that we need that and we also need some re-investigation into the HUNDREDS of pass cases involving such lopsided decisions! It is utterly ridiculous that a badge seems to buy you a free pass to (repeatedly) physically abuse the same people you are paid to "Protect and Serve", as well as a free pass to murder them! And the fact that we have a pattern of abuse should be a huge red light to the authorities, the government and the people.

Of course we need a "voice" of the people. However, the one thing I notice in most of those situations, is the excuse that the victims are former criminals! Unfortunately, that argument has helped some assailants be acquitted or charged with lesser crimes because the jury of their peers, MAY feel that these cops have done society a favor! However, the point they are missing is that in the case of MOST of these victims that were found to be former criminals is that, they are just that FORMER! The crimes committed by these individuals were either done when they were children/teens or they had paid their dues via prison/work programs/probation/etc. So why does DEATH all of the sudden become the penalty for making mistake in your youth! Especially in the case of Grant who had shown so much progress and taking care of his family that its RIDICULOUS to think that Mehserle should have been allowed to Taser that young man, let alone shoot him IN THE BACK! That is NOT justice! That is COWARDICE!

What do you think should be done?

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WHAT STYLEZ THINKS ABOUT => Rev. Jesse Jackson Reacts to Dan Gilbert’s Open Letter

News

July 11, 2010

Rev. Jesse L. Jackson Sr. Reacts to Dan Gilbert’s Open Letter

“Mr. Dan Gilbert's accusations, expressed in an open letter to LeBron James ... have legal and social implications for the league, its union and the character of LeBron James. By saying that he has gotten a free pass and that people have covered for him way too long, Gilbert suggests that LeBron has done something illegal or illicit.

He speaks as an owner of LeBron and not the owner of the Cleveland Cavaliers. His feelings of betrayal personify a slave master mentality. He sees LeBron as a runaway slave...

If he believes that LeBron quit in games 2, 4, 5 and 6 of the 2010 Eastern Conference semifinals, then, why did he fire the coach? If he believes that LeBron intentionally quit, determining the outcome of those games, why did he pursue him and offer him and additional $120 million to stay in Cleveland?

When players or coaches speak disrespectfully to or about referees, they are fined. If Mr. Gilbert cannot prove that LeBron changed games by quitting, he defames his character. He should have to face a challenge by the NBA and the players association. LeBron has every right to an apology.

LeBron is not a child, nor is he bound to play on Gilbert’s plantation and be demeaned.

Mr. Gilbert's statement is mean, arrogant and presumptuous.

I hope that LeBron will speak up and speak out clearly and forcefully.”

SO WHAT DOES STYLEZ THINK?

I just read this and think that Rev. Jackson makes some great points. I didn't think of it that way, but he is right, Dan does owe Lebron an apology because he pretty much acted out against James in anger and without thinking about the impact of his statements. Gilbert made comments as if he didnt understand that James was bound to leave the Cavs organization by any means necessary. That was PAINFULLY obvious and I think that Gilbert should just face reality and keep it moving!

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Things That Make You Go HMMMM!!! Random Questions & Answers By STYLEZ!

So I was bouncing along through the INTERNETS again today and found a friend asking all these (rhetorical I guess) questions. Just random musings and thoughts! So, you know I had to put my 4 1/2 cents in (2 cents is never enough for Stylez!). Anyway, here the questions, my answers and hey why don't you comment with some of your own answers to some of these POIGNANT questions! (keep in mind, I DID NOT author the questions)  ==>>

How come young ladies don't wear girdles anymore? (It isn't suppose to jiggle, you know)

-- Because they mommas wanted to be FREE from the girdle, so they were never TAUGHT to wear one! So now they think the jiggle is cute! (well, on some ppl IT IS! LOL)

 

Why doesn't anyone seem to remember that thick and fat are two different things? (YEAH, there is a difference)

-- if your friends call you this interchangeably...YOU NEED NEW FRIENDS! LOL!

 

Why is it that men can ALWAYS find a lady to be with but it is WAY harder for a lady to get a man?

-- Im actually not sure WHAT SHE WAS TALKING ABOUT here! If you feel this way, you need to get out more! SMH! I know more ladies w/ men comin out their ears... they just choose to ignore them! Sometimes though, its good they ignore them fools! SMH!

 

Why don't we have those flying cars like the Jetsons yet?

-- I wanna know that too!

 

Why is healthy food more expensive than the junk food? Shouldn't be the other way around to promoting a healthy lifestyle?

-- Its just like healthcare, THE MONEYS IN THE MEDICINE, NOT THE CURE! 

 

So......who is Justin Bieber? And why is he so popular?

-- LMAO! Be quiet or a Bieber stan will cut you! He's just another kid that will be cracked out on smack in about 3 years, and we'll be watching an E! True Hollywood Story, going emm, emm, emm, that boy had so much going for him back in 2010!

 

Why do rude waiters & waitresses still expect a tip after giving bad service? Here's a tip: be pleasant!

-- RIGHT! #Concur 

 

Why do people expect you to do more than what they are willing to do for you?

-- One word... SELFISH!

 

Why is the Bible so difficult for me to read?

-- You KNOW its written in code! LOL! But hey, find a good pastor or religious organization and they will clear it up for you!

 

Ok, Why do I always fall asleep when trying to read the Bible? (don't act like it is just me...you do it too)

-- SMH! **raising hand** BUT, I do that on EVERY book I read! (SMH again, yall goin to hell! LOL! j/k)

 

Why can't you make a spouse like in The Stepford Wives movie?

-- Hmmmm, thats a good idea. But you know they are close w/ those life size, life like dolls you can get now. They come in Female AND Male now! There's hope for you lonely suckers! LOL! j/k

 

What kind of milk did Adam and Eve drink? And were they lactose intolerant?

-- LMAO! SMH! They were perfect, so Im sure they drank brontosaurus milk and it was DELICIOUS to them! LOL!

 

If Adam and Eve were the first humans... who did their kids marry?

-- unfortunately... their OWN siblings! SMH! But they were all they had, so (eewwww) incest was cool back then!

 

Why are so many people settling for that 20% when they can have patient and wait on the 80%? (Y'all saw Why did I get married, so you know what I mean)

-- You already said it... NO patience! We live in a NOW, NOW, NOW society!

 

Why does it seem easier for a lady to has 6 or 7 kids to settle down with a man (WHO WANTS TO MARRY HER) than it is for a woman who has one kid?

-- Hey! My wife had a gaggle of kids when I married her! LOL! But that is definitely a phenomena! Because you can have a variety of things going on in that situation. Like mine was, my wife was married, and left her husband, thus the single w/ kids. But she was taking care of her business! And you have some that are widows that really have no choice (I have a friend like that, had a big happy family full of kids, then the father died!). But then you have the ones that are immature and are having a gang of kids for no reason w/ no hope of taking care of them w/o FIA! Thats a toss up!

 

Why do women withhold sex from their spouse then get mad when the spouse goes and gets sex elsewhere? HELLO?!

-- Im married, Im happy, no comment! LOL!

 

Why do women like "bad boys"?

-- You know that's all about the excitement factor! The pheremones and the spontaneity! But then you end up with the disappointment and the disaster! SMH!

 

Why do people say it isn't the size that matters....WHEN IT IS!

-- LMAO! They TRYING to be nice! LOL!

 

Why do designers make clothes that are intended for a size 2 in a size 22?

-- Big Girls wanna look sexy too! And their willing to pay the extra for it too! Two words... CHA CHING!

 

How do people become scared of their minor children?

-- SMH! That's a damn shame! I will NEVER let my kid get to the point where they THINK they gonna run me! But some people just don't have what it takes to be good parents! OR they let a kid get so outta hand, they turn into a NIGHTMARE!

 

Why is it so hard to forgive and forget? and how come it is like a daily battle?

-- OMG, RIGHT! I feel you on that! But its because we are human, we can "act" like we forgive, but we never forget! A grudge is hard to shake!

 

Why am I a night owl?

-- LOL! Me TOO! It's in our blood I'm sure! LOL!

 

Why do they say that Gemini's are crazy?

-- Because... THEY ARE! LOL!

 

How come people always realize they had a good thing once it is gone? How come you don't learn to appreciate the person while you have them in your life?

-- because like breathing, when something is just naturally there, and you start to forget how REALLY important it is, you take it for granted... until somebody cuts it off!

 

Why do women brag about being re-virginized? Isn't that the word? Truth be told doesn't that mean that you were blew out and the doc had to sew you back up so your uterus won't fall out?

-- Yea... NO COMMENT! SMH!

 

Why is it cool to be on public assistance? When I was a kid it was not something to brag about.

-- OMG RIGHT! We used to get capped on ALL DAY when I was kid growin up on Welfare! Now ITS what's HOT in the Hood! SMH! Ignorance!

 

Why does it seem that all politicians are corrupt individuals...and why do we still vote for them?

-- politicians have ALWAYS been corrupt, its what makes a GOOD politician! Agendas! SMH!

 

Why do women have multiple babies with a no good man and say after this last baby he is going to do right by them.....Dang, don't y'all have four already?

-- LOL! But that's the delusion people live in with relationships. Instead of realizing you are NEVER gonna change that man; not with a kid (or 4), not with marriage, not with a new hair style, not with a menage a trois (I don't care if HE SAID he will be good after the 3-some, damn fool); nothing is going to change him... but a new woman! So get out while you are ahead and let him go find (and annoy the hell out of) her! LOL!

 

Why do people dirty up the innercity and as soon as you cross into the suburbs you wanna keep that city clean? Hey, don't you LIVE here? Keep your own city clean!

-- Yea, that's CRAZY! But its the same reason some ppl live in filth at home, but they are the cleanest people at work or over their friend's house! It don't make sense, but strangely... it does! SMH!

 

Really, where are all the good black men? Where are the good fathers?

-- **raising hand** RIGHT HERE! :)

 

Why are we failing a generation of children and how can we fix it?

-- WHEW! That's a tough question, but I am starting to believe we have got to stop SPOILING our children! A lot of us that didn't HAVE coming up, but now we do, so we give our kids the world! And rightfully so... but when your kid doesn't appreciate it! It's time to start making them suffer and going without! That's the only way they will start to appreciate what they get! But they also have to be cut off from the bad influences of the world. Their "friends", commercials, music videos, and any other negative and "ignorance endorsing" activities/media. Then make them start READING! All that is tough, but I think that is a good start to get kids turned around.

 

Why is being "ghetto" now considered cool?

-- OMG, don't even get me started!

 

Do you know what ghetto really means and that we use it incorrectly?

-- RIGHT! Because ppl don't read! Or care to know what things mean. They just like jumping on the bandwagon and saying stuff! Look at the n-word! Bandwagon mentality!

 

Why am I still awake?

-- Insomniac! LOL!

 

How come it takes forever to clean up the house and minutes to dirty up?

-- LOL! I think that's a physics problem! LOL!

 

How do they name Hurricanes?

-- check out this site! http://geology.com/hurricanes/hurricane-names.shtml

 

Why haven't they named a hurricane, Shaniqua?

-- LOL! Im sure its coming soon! LOL!

 

Why does negative news sell better than something positive?

-- because we live in a negative society! We THRIVE on negativity in our lives and in the lives of others! As most people how their day went, and 9 times out of 10 (sometimes 10/10) you will get a full report of the "bad" or negative things that happened!

 

Why is it so much easier to find a bad male influence for my son than a positive one? Seriously!

-- Again, YOU NEEd NEW FRIENDS! LOL!

 

How come we weren’t born old and get younger with knowledge...like in the movie Benjamin Button?

-- That would be interesting! I need to see that movie!

 

Why do I get all those Viagra junk mails when I do not visit any porn sites?

-- riiiggght! yea, you stick to that story! LOL!

 

Why are good friends so hard to find and it is so easy to make an enemy?

-- because people can't stand to see other people happy! Once you think you have a friend, soon as you are doing well, they will become a hater! Once you get a man, they will try to break you up, sometimes trying to take the person for themselves! Once you get something for you, they will have to compete w/ you! Its SAD but TRUE... but also means... (you should already know this is coming) YOU NEED NEW FRIENDS!!! LOL!

 

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